When I finally gave in and said "yes" to Dennis getting a bike, I had no idea what it would lead to. I was very worried about his getting hurt or killed and, considerate husband that he is, he spent the first 10 years of our marriage hinting, cajoling, and sneakily introducing me to riding. But I was still worried for him.
After 5 years of owning a bike and no catastrophe befalling him, I decided I possibly, maybe, kinda, sorta, might want to ride my own. When I mentioned this to him, he took me to his favorite bike shop and had me choose a bike I felt comfortable with. I chose - and he vetted - a little V-Star 250. I felt it was too big, but it was the smallest available and the seat height was low enough to make me feel I had some control over this dangerous behemoth.
At this point, I had my motorcycle endorsement but I did not ride my new bike home. In our area, one can get a motorcycle endorsement on a scooter - which is what I used - and the only criteria for passing the test is that one makes it around the tiny parking lot without dropping the bike/scooter. Yeah, that makes me feel sooo safe.
Once home, Dennis, with incredible patience, set out to teach me. We drove to a large park (I drove the van) and he had me take the bike around the parking lot a few times. From listening to him, I knew the basics, but it's a long way from hearing it and actually shifting and braking. I did this a few times, until I was no longer nervous. Lesson 1: check.
Over the next month, Dennis took me to different areas, teaching me different maneuvers, pointing out possible hazards and correcting errors (we wear helmet radios) as I made them. When he felt I had mastered a particular traffic situation he took me to the next "level", e.i. riding in the park or parking lot, small town riding, surface streets, low traffic, heavy traffic. Eventually, I graduated to interstate riding and I was off! Now that I've graduated to a V-Star 650, he has a hard time keeping up with all the riding I want to do.
Yes, honey, you have created a monster!